From Katie on her fiancé, Chris: He started doing drugs and drinking when he was 14. He had some childhood trauma that he's not willing to share publicly. Also when he was 19? (Could be wrong on age) he and his best friend were robbed at a gas station in Memphis. His friend was shot and died in his arms.
I believe that's when true addiction started.
Not long after that. He walked in and found another good friend dead from hanging himself.
Several years after that it was pretty much on and off. He tried to make amends with his life and start doing good after Hurricane Katrina hit he moved to New Orleans to help rebuild (building/ remodeling houses) what he saw there traumatized him even more. So what he thought would help him, hurt him even more. Then his dad was diagnosed with cancer so he moved back to Memphis to help his parents out which is when I met him. At that time he was drinking but not heavily and I didn't realize he was actually an alcoholic or recovering addict until I got pregnant with Corbin.
He spiraled out of control and we broke up before Corbin was born and he moved back to Slidell. He came back to Memphis when Corbin was 2. We got back together and right before Corbin turned 3 we had a miscarriage and he turned to the bottle again for that. I was in the hospital, hurting, scared and by myself the whole time so I totally lost it when I came home and found him in bed with empty liquor bottles all over him. So that led to me kicking him out.
Over the year we were apart we had minimal contact. He went 12 years without seeing or talking to corbin. In 2019 he contacted me again and wanted to be serious about getting his life back together said he had been sober for a while so I gave him another chance. Ever since we've been back together he has done so well. He always tells me that I'm the one who saved his life but I don't believe that. I keep telling him he had to be ready for the change and HE is the only reason he is sober. But that is something we will probably never agree on lol.
When his dad died he moved in with his mom and dying aunt so that he could take care of them. So when his aunt died it was also traumatic. I'm sure there's alot that I'm forgetting but my mind is totally fucked right now. He currently doesn't have health insurance.
From Jessica: